I had a friend come out recently, everywhere. I’m proud of her, but above all, I am grateful. You see, while my inner family, my chosen family knows? I am still not in a position to be freely open with who I am, especially regarding being polyamorous and owned. I wish I were- but I cannot risk …
honesty is a privilege we should all exercise when we have the ability Read More »
Before you’re their world, their everythingYou’re magnificent, beautiful, a gemThey’ve never seen another woman like youNever known a woman to exude such presence But then you say no Spin on a dimeTurn ugly, cruel, closedYou’re dangerous,Selfish.Cold.A bitch. After you say no I thought you meant itThe flattering words,The promisesBut it was a lie. He said …
funny how you’re suddenly ugly/fat/dangerous/a bitch AFTER you say “no” Read More »
What do you do, what do you say? What do you do when the person claiming hurt is the one that hurt you? Do you believe them… this time? Do you put the past in behind you? Do you sit back and let whatever will be, will be? Do you think I know? I don’t …
This may not be my best writing, but I wanted to push the words outside of myself, where they’d sit and fester.
A quote from the author of More than Two, “Make sure there are no monsters under your bed before you do it, because if there are any weak points in your relationship if there is anything you’re not sure about, if there are any little fears or insecurities you have polyamory will find them it …
thoughts from “More Than Two”: it’s not just the “poly folk” Read More »
Look, I know what you want to say. “But women do the same thing! Women love showing off their bodies!” You aren’t wrong, entirely. You aren’t entirely right, either. I’m sorry for the shorthand terminology associated with unwanted dick pictures. It really isn’t about the “unsolicited.” At least not primarily. I get “unsolicited pussy pics” …
Two things. Just. Two. Good. Things. Sometimes life is rough. Can you find two good things in your life? Some people don’t have that. It’s a gift to have two wonderful, amazing, unbelievable things in one’s life. Two things you can rely on. That give you undeniable, unimaginable pleasure. Just think of two good, I …
I adore fairytale adaptations. Consistently, through the years, my favorite has remained the same: Ever After. I love that it’s the first Cinderella story where, when the prince (would) sing, Do I want you because you’re wonderful, Or are you wonderful Because I want you? I don’t answer, “I have no idea. As far as …
25th anniversary: the best Cinderella story, “Ever After” Read More »
She left marks upon me, as did he, as did she, as did each and every one. I wish to be one that leaves marks upon others, not scars. Oh, I have no shame in my scars! On the contraire, I swell with pride touching each one. My scars reflect my life, and I have …
be someone who leaves a mark on their life, not a scar Read More »
I’m lazy about relationships some days. So are my friends. Random internet strangers. …and who the fuck cares? My cousin is a typical traditionalist who chose the path of least resistance when it came to her romantic life. Something easily understood by her mainly Christian conservative friends and family. She dated the opposite sex. She …