my *actual* little has feelings
My little had feelings today, Yesterday, today, tomorrow Volatile, difficult ones, […]
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what do you say, little girl?
“Daddy?” “Yes, little one?” “Daddy, I want to play.” “What do you say?” “Daddy, I want to play. Please.” “Better. Come over here.” “Okay, daddy.” “Okay…what?” “Okay, daddy, thank you.” “Better. All right, now which game should we play, little one?” “Hmmm, I want to play hide and seek. I mean, I want to play
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what it’s like to “date” a polyamorous, aromantic lover
“Show up wearing nothing but a coat. I’ll be ready and waiting to cook your favorite meal, snuggle and watch a movie together, wake up lazily with kisses and serve you breakfast in bed.” I had a date like that with a former lover. Spoiled silly for an entire weekend, with someone who barely knew
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25th anniversary: the best Cinderella story, “Ever After”
I adore fairytale adaptations. Consistently, through the years, my favorite has remained the same: Ever After. I love that it’s the first Cinderella story where, when the prince (would) sing, Do I want you because you’re wonderful, Or are you wonderful Because I want you? I don’t answer, “I have no idea. As far as
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ripping off the blindfold
The allure of ignorance. Do you want to know? To have your eyes opened? It cannot be undone. It is a beautiful thing to see the truth, yet it can be painful. Suppose you spent a lifetime believing a lie, only to have that lie crumpled up and thrown away? Suppose, too, you sacrificed that
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what -exactly- are you waiting for, dear?
I understand hesitancy in romance. Okay, I might jump into bed with near strangers- but I am slower to connect emotionally. I instinctively freeze whenever I meet someone new. Even when I first met my master. He wasn’t right for me; I had strong feelings about his partner choices; I was a total mess and
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when darkness meets light
She thought she needed a kind man. Gentle, loving, buys her roses, champagnes, and diamonds. She’d be the envy of all her acquaintances, friends, and colleagues. She believed deeply in this fairytale. She believed herself to be a lost princess in search of Prince Charming. “Hello,” he said to her. “Hello,” she said back. With
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top for a top?: when doms need to safeword
I am not a Domme. I should clarify this first and foremost. As a submissive, the last thing I want -generally- is the responsibility of taking control of the scene. At the same time, I am curious about the idea. As, I’m sure, are many submissive types. Of course it’s rather nerve wracking to entertain
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mutual questionnaire when beginning a relationship: romance edition
Questions When Beginning A Relationship (Romantic) A Living Document Love Languages: What does love mean to you? Look like? How do you give and receive romantic love? References: What are your “people” like? Your closest friends? Chosen family? Who might I run into at munches? Tell me about them. What would they say about you? Can I
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can you be aromantic and polyamorous?
It’s a question I see come up now and again. Asexuals can absolutely be polyamorous, as romantic love does not have to be defined by sex. …but can aromantics be part of a ROMANTIC relationship structure, many ask? Well, yes and no. It depends on how you view romance. Is romance only flowers and Valentine’s
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