I fell asleep thinking about you last night, My fingers creeping to my pussy, wet, dripping You say I’m gorgeous and I am modest enough to blush and giggle in response, But I do believe I am beautiful and perhaps that is my ego speaking but I don’t care anymore I have plenty, they say, …
I will always be a safe place for you. You don’t have to be “mine.” I don’t have to be “yours.” I will show you love and respect, regardless of your commitment to me. My home will always be a sanctuary. If nobody else will take you in, I will. I’ve had friends stay with …
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How they made you feel, what they said to you? I remember flashes. A woman’s blackbird tattoo; experimenting with smoking after sex; this super fun bunkbed in a loft, like I was making love in Moulin Rouge; the time I walked in public with both halves of a couple holding my hand, unashamed to be …
I told someone the other day that I never push past the no. “I would never do that,” I say. “There’s absolutely no point, anyway, and it violates their consent. If they decline your pursuit, respect that.” “But what if they really want you to chase them?,” they ask me. “What if they do,” I …
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I wish you the best, truly. I am sorry for whatever poor experience was inflicted upon you. But maybe you’d benefit from hearing a few things. Munches are not, as common wisdom would tell you, a place to make you feel “warm and fuzzy.” ( Or at least it feels like that memo got passed …
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“Are YOU burdened with glorious purpose and find yourself trying to enslave an entire world population?” “Did YOU accidentally blow up a planet and are now trying to come to terms with your own existence?” “Did YOU get selected to fight your peers to the death and don’t know what to do next?” If you …
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God, I love “love bombing” Not always. But sometimes. Other times it pisses me off. But sometimes, like a guilty pleasure TV show, I cannot get enough of it! I read an article today that “love bombing” is a sign of a narcissist. If I wanted to avoid a narcissist, I should avoid those who …
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I woke up. Showered. Came back to find the bed freshly made and the little pillows properly placed. I love clean sheets. I’m such a domestic, no? And on the pillow, on my side of the bed, is a card. Now, I’ve never gotten a card for Mother’s Day before. But these days, I’m feeling …
It seems like monogamous submissive women are having an especially hard time finding a good dominant, monogamous man. (Let’s not even get started on straight, submissive male submissives.) Maybe it was always difficult. But certainly, my single, vanilla female friends seemed to have an okay time finding a guy. Whereas I struggled finding a non …