I will always be a safe place for you. You don’t have to be “mine.” I don’t have to be “yours.” I will show you love and respect, regardless of your commitment to me. My home will always be a sanctuary. If nobody else will take you in, I will. I’ve had friends stay with …
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How they made you feel, what they said to you? I remember flashes. A woman’s blackbird tattoo; experimenting with smoking after sex; this super fun bunkbed in a loft, like I was making love in Moulin Rouge; the time I walked in public with both halves of a couple holding my hand, unashamed to be …
I wish you the best, truly. I am sorry for whatever poor experience was inflicted upon you. But maybe you’d benefit from hearing a few things. Munches are not, as common wisdom would tell you, a place to make you feel “warm and fuzzy.” ( Or at least it feels like that memo got passed …
dear people who go to munches and are consequently disappointed, Read More »
“Are YOU burdened with glorious purpose and find yourself trying to enslave an entire world population?” “Did YOU accidentally blow up a planet and are now trying to come to terms with your own existence?” “Did YOU get selected to fight your peers to the death and don’t know what to do next?” If you …
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God, I love “love bombing” Not always. But sometimes. Other times it pisses me off. But sometimes, like a guilty pleasure TV show, I cannot get enough of it! I read an article today that “love bombing” is a sign of a narcissist. If I wanted to avoid a narcissist, I should avoid those who …
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It seems like monogamous submissive women are having an especially hard time finding a good dominant, monogamous man. (Let’s not even get started on straight, submissive male submissives.) Maybe it was always difficult. But certainly, my single, vanilla female friends seemed to have an okay time finding a guy. Whereas I struggled finding a non …
Some might say I wasted that decade. Threw my twenties away. They might be right– — but they might be wrong. If I could pass on a single life lesson to anyone, it would be this: Whoever you are, wherever you are, please put aside that time to find yourself. Because happiness is tricky. Everyone’s …
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What would happen if People Treated Baking Cookies like they do Relationships?
Ah, orgasms, the at times elusive, but I believe always desired, goal of our most intimate, combining BOTH mental and physical intimacy, experiences!
So I hear today is National Metamour Day? What is a metamour, you ask? Well, actually it’s pretty simple: A metamour is like an in-law.