Kitty’s Musings

when unicorns are unicorn hunters

I see it constantly. Couples seeking a bisexual woman. “Unicorn hunter!” they scream.  There isn’t anything worse- in the polyamorous community- than wanting a “third.” Everyone wants their own perfect, SINGLE, female partner. Which, I guess, makes sense.  It seems like such a dream for newly excited polyamorous couples.  To find their perfect girlfriend.  It’s

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what it’s like to “date” a polyamorous, aromantic lover

“Show up wearing nothing but a coat.  I’ll be ready and waiting to cook your favorite meal, snuggle and watch a movie together, wake up lazily with kisses and serve you breakfast in bed.” I had a date like that with a former lover.  Spoiled silly for an entire weekend, with someone who barely knew

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mutual questionnaire when beginning a relationship: romance edition

Questions When Beginning A Relationship (Romantic) A Living Document Love Languages:  What does love mean to you?  Look like?  How do you give and receive romantic love? References: What are your “people” like? Your closest friends? Chosen family? Who might I run into at munches? Tell me about them. What would they say about you? Can I

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