Ouch, stupid her, leaving a stray Lego piece on the floor. She could not do a single thing right today. What was she now? Without him, she felt lost, falling apart. She picked up the Lego piece. Only toy she’d bothered with lately. She hadn’t so much as touched herself in a month. She glanced outside. …
Not everyone needs a dungeon. But not everyone will need a heart surgeon, either. That doesn’t negate the need to keep one around. I love house parties, too. But it’s a whole different atmosphere. They don’t replace dungeons. Perhaps part of the problem is that we don’t understand the value. A few recent events have …
I Am Kinky by the Kinky Doctor Seuss I am kinky when I’m safeI am kinky when I chafe I am kinky when I’m scaredI am kinky when I’m spared I am kinky when I’m comfyI am kinky when I’m grumpy I am kinky when I labelI am kinky whenever I’m able I am kinky …
dr. seuss presents kink: are you kinky in a house? are you kinky with your spouse? Read More »
I’ve never had that overwhelming life defining moment. Things just kept happening. That was all. I’ve never had the wedding day, nerve wracking graduation (yes, I graduated, but just bachelor’s, nothing special), or the birth of my child. I’ve had very good days and very bad days. Or I’ve had days I floated on my …
Okay, he’s cute, sexy, whatever. Have I thought about him? Maybe. I’m demisexual- in the sense that I need an emotional connection, even if it only exists in my silly little head-, so I may not have any interest in yours in particular. Besides, you’ll probably never know. Flirting is generally defined by intent– and …
no, i don’t want your husband: an explanation of ethical non monogamy Read More »
I had a perfect week. I can’t imagine a more perfect week, perhaps an entirely different sort of perfect but not “more” perfect. It’s difficult, with all the pain surrounding us, but I don’t want to feel guilty for feeling, well, good. Happy. Floating in the clouds. Surrounded by love, support, everything anyone could claim …
why not allow a little more beauty into this world? Read More »
I read an article today about a mother who missed the days when she did not yet have children. Some will say that is just a passing phase. Others that they would never, ever feel that way. I wondered how many of them had ever met a child, let alone raised one. You will miss …
Sometimes sitting, wishing, and waiting isn’t enough. Wishing for a perfect submissive or dominant isn’t enough. Simply living your best life isn’t always enough. There’s never an “enough” to guarantee finding Love, let alone Submission and someone worthy of that Submission. Or someone worthy of Ownership. …but sometimes we can help ourselves out a bit. …
It’s late Sunday evening, around 9pm. I notice my oldest munchkin at her usual ritual. She’s sitting at the dinner table, absorbed in her snacks and her Facebook scrolling. It’s one of the few times she emerges from her den. I’m annoyed at her for bolting away from dinner earlier and avoiding chores. She’s barely …
practicing kindness in little ways: a gentle approach to daily life Read More »
She needs to be Beautiful, slender, child free but wanting to provide her domly dom with children (her body will, naturally, revert back to pre-child body), available to move near you, experienced in submission, willing to please, an excellent cook– and above all, SINGLE. He needs to be Tall, fit, experienced in various forms of …