eight years later, or how I grew with those I love
April 12, 2020
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emotional abuse is abuse
May 5, 2023
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entwinement of loss and “jealousy,” the
November 16, 2023
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erasure and homophobia
January 12, 2024
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eulogy to my (your) abuser, a
January 12, 2024
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everybody deserves to be loved, yes, that means everyone
January 12, 2024
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existential threat of a kinky, flirty, polyamorous mastermind unicorn, the
May 21, 2019
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explanation of hedonism: pleasure is my kink
January 12, 2024
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fake relationships are actually quite satisfying
January 12, 2024
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family boundaries can sound like….
January 12, 2024
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fantasy life must be oh, so amazing, the
January 12, 2024
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fascination of “love bombing” & other toxic behaviors, the
May 23, 2021
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fear of being you, the
September 20, 2020
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feelings are valid != feelings are facts
February 5, 2022
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fire burns, fire heals
January 12, 2023
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five or six stories running through my head on a loop, the
November 10, 2019
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forgetting vanilla
April 5, 2022
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forgiveness culture isn’t bullshit, it’s [my] survival
August 15, 2019
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forgiveness, nostalgia, and the things I loved about my abusers
May 23, 2023
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free play vs. game play: a distilled approach to kink
January 26, 2022
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funny how you’re suddenly ugly/fat/dangerous/a bitch AFTER you say “no”
May 4, 2023
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further thoughts on “More Than Two”: you’ll never find “all” the monsters
May 5, 2023
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general guide on how I “kitten,” a
January 12, 2024
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gentle tides of life wash away another layer of sand, the
November 19, 2019
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God, your relationships are so LAZY!
May 20, 2022
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handling the “I want to be your friend, but I’m scared of it turning into more…” talk
February 3, 2022
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happily ever what the fuck
February 21, 2020
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happiness is a choice: lessons from my mother
August 20, 2019
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happy poly day to you!
January 12, 2024
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happy thoughts, happy lots
January 12, 2024
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her web of lies: an unfortunate fairytale, or how I put my past behind me
December 6, 2020
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Here’s to Old Relationship Energy
December 19, 2019
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hidden life of a Very Cherished Toy, the
April 25, 2023
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honesty is a privilege we should all exercise when we have the ability
May 4, 2023
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how i speak about my past
January 12, 2024
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how kink opened my eyes to what was possible
January 12, 2024
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how to avoid a cheater
March 26, 2020
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how to be beautiful AND a slut
January 12, 2024
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how to bring a date to a munch: kitty edition!
October 2, 2017
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how to earn a child’s respect (spoilers)
January 12, 2024
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how to listen to a child
January 17, 2022
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how to manage expectations in a polyamorous relationship: a general guide
October 3, 2023
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how to relationship: GoT edition
January 12, 2024
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how to save a life
February 27, 2022
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how to treat someone like an option that treats you like an option
December 23, 2021
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I *know* monoamory is not for me!
August 4, 2020
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i am a loser
January 12, 2024
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i am a time slut
January 12, 2024
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I am never owed understanding, nor support
January 12, 2024
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i cannot only be a [_______]
November 15, 2021
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i crave being owned, as she craves a white wedding gown or bruises
January 2, 2017
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i did pick one
December 19, 2021
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i didn’t know it was going to be you
August 2, 2020
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i don’t “sign up” for anything but memberships
January 12, 2024
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i don’t exist to be pretty
January 12, 2024
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i don’t hate you, i love you
January 12, 2024
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i don’t pity unicorn hunters
January 12, 2024
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i don’t think they’re “doors”
September 30, 2017
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i don’t want her to be one of the broken ones
November 1, 2021
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i found my dart set
November 14, 2021
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i hate when my hands shake
April 13, 2023
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i hope it was fucking worth it
October 8, 2023
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i judge your username, OR 5 simple reasons you might be ruining your chance at getting a response from a woman
January 12, 2024
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i like her, but i have issues with her daddy
May 13, 2020
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i love when my words are seen
January 12, 2024
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i love you as antony loved cleopatra
January 12, 2024
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I may be “damaged,” but I don’t need to be alone
July 21, 2022
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i might be mary poppins
January 12, 2024
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i pin my hopes on nobody but myself
January 12, 2024
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i thought she said sorry
April 19, 2022
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i want to be all of my selves, because otherwise i lose myself
January 12, 2024
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i wanted to love you
January 3, 2023
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i’d like you to be my biggest cheerleader, but i NEED you to be my biggest critic
January 12, 2024
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i’d rather not be alone, thank you
February 6, 2022
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I’m a truly horrible domme
February 17, 2020
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i’m underrepresented, but i’m not “marginalized”
January 12, 2024
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if i wanted to date a perfect (ly boring) body, i’d date a sex bot
January 12, 2024
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if I were single today, would you be my primary tomorrow?
January 12, 2024
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if they offer you “almost everything,” take it
December 15, 2019
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if they say they are the -only- one for you, they might also be the very worst for you
January 17, 2021
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if they want you, they want you; if they don’t, they don’t
January 12, 2024
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if we talked about monogamy like polyamory
October 24, 2023
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if you give a little a stuffy
February 25, 2020
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if you seduce me under false pretenses, why, i’m so sorry you troubled yourself
January 12, 2024
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if you think you might be, you probably aren’t
January 12, 2024
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if you want to break up with me, break up with me
April 18, 2021
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incredible subs, fantastic dom(mes)
February 14, 2022
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is all damage “good damage”?
July 5, 2020
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is it lazy to not have a primary partner?
August 13, 2022
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is polyamory “better” than monogamy?
April 23, 2023
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it doesn’t count if it’s a girl
September 10, 2019
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it doesn’t feel like winning today
December 23, 2022
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it isn’t up to her, OR waking up to a bright new day
January 21, 2021
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it’s harder to disappoint the ones that love you than you think
November 13, 2021
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it’s nice when people act like poly is normal
January 12, 2024
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it’s not always about the crisis
March 17, 2020
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it’s okay to Commit in polyamorous relationships
August 20, 2023
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