opposite of blue is aromantic, the
December 22, 2019
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orgasms! a simple guide
March 7, 2021
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our many masks
January 12, 2024
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payoff of “being nice,” the
January 12, 2024
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peace be with you, my love
January 12, 2024
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people really are bad at relationships: part one
September 1, 2022
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perfect metamour, the
January 16, 2022
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perfect plan laid out by your average narcissist, the
January 12, 2024
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perspective of a 24/7 sub
January 12, 2024
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petty assault and the reality of “no consequences”
July 5, 2023
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phrases to drop to avoid disparaging other forms of relationships: part one
September 22, 2022
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picture perfect Love vs. Love
January 16, 2022
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plight of the straight, female, mono submissive, part 1: dear pretty, mono girl
December 1, 2019
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plight of the straight, female, mono submissive, part 3: congratulations, you found your perfect monogamous dom!
January 19, 2022
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poly? kinky? relationships are just relationships: my vanilla manifesto
August 6, 2019
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polyamorous relationships shouldn’t be the first opportunity to learn How To Relationship
March 12, 2020
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polyamory & ice cream
July 28, 2019
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polyamory in casablanca (**yes, some spoilers**)
January 26, 2020
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practicing kindness in little ways: a gentle approach to daily life
February 13, 2022
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prettiness fades, beauty lasts
January 12, 2024
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pretty, little kitty: a poem
January 17, 2022
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pride in being owned, my
July 2, 2019
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princess jasmine decides to not trust aladdin; a tale of risk tolerance
January 12, 2024
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privilege of being His second love, the
January 10, 2023
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raging against the storm
March 20, 2022
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rain in the desert
May 21, 2022
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reaction and response: the child and adult
January 12, 2024
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real and fake benefits of monogamy and non monogamy
January 3, 2021
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reevaluating, “abused people, abuse people”
January 31, 2022
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refusing to drink my own poison
August 15, 2023
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refusing to drink poison
January 12, 2024
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relationship between shame, guilt, humiliation, and degradation, the
October 12, 2023
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relationships are a marble statue, not an oak tree
November 22, 2020
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relationships that are wants, and the relationships that are needs, the
December 30, 2021
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ripping off the blindfold
February 9, 2023
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rubber duckies aren’t just for littles (& many more things that are for everyone!)
January 10, 2021
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ruby rule: when you treat people better than you want to be treated, the
February 6, 2022
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scheduling poly dating life and childcare: how do you make them both work?
March 3, 2020
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second choice is actually pretty damn good
June 1, 2023
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seeing them for who they are shouldn’t ruin them
March 28, 2022
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sensualism, hedonism, & sapiosexuals
June 29, 2023
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Sensuality
September 24, 2023
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seriously, being repressed isn’t as fun anymore
January 12, 2024
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sex worker services for WOMEN and COUPLES
February 23, 2023
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sexuality is not trendy
January 12, 2024
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sharing love is a beautiful thing
November 4, 2021
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sharing our emotional burdens
January 12, 2024
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she chose him, he chose her
September 4, 2022
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she gave me a view from halfway down
January 28, 2022
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short history of the unicorn: poly edition, a
April 4, 2023
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show me something different
January 12, 2024
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sigh, some days I really just want to show off my partners!
January 12, 2024
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silly little thoughts of a ptsd survivor
January 12, 2024
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single life isn’t unhappy, the
January 8, 2019
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sit still, look pretty: Dolls
August 22, 2023
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slice of rainbow cake, a
January 16, 2022
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snowstorms, loneliness, beauty, joy, and scalding showers
December 16, 2022
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social media, in its sincerest form, is a mirror of our lives (so check what you’re reflecting!)
July 31, 2022
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societal failures in communication
March 20, 2021
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sometimes it’s too late
January 12, 2024
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sometimes joys of living together, the
August 14, 2018
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sometimes people pretend you’re a bad person because they feel guilty about what they did to you
January 12, 2024
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sometimes you’re not enough
January 1, 2023
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sorry, sweetheart, your pussy isn’t more magical than love
August 8, 2022
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stay single until— an analysis & an observation
September 12, 2019
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staying with your children is a privilege and a luxury
May 7, 2023
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Stop trying to make me happy
December 3, 2019
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struggling with solopoly
October 2, 2022
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stupid piece of shit; a reflection on my inner voices
April 5, 2020
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sweet dreams made of sweet thoughts
November 18, 2021
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sweet longings of a piesexual
January 12, 2024
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sweetness of many loves, OR what I love about love, the
November 29, 2021
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sweetness of you, the
March 14, 2023
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thank you for not abandoning me when i lied to you
January 12, 2024
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thank you note to the woman who will never hear me, a
March 9, 2023
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thank you, master, for capturing my mind
January 12, 2024
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that little spark
September 5, 2021
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that time the glory of God penetrated me with His curative powers
May 7, 2023
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that time they projected perfection on me, aka a twisted honeymoon love
January 12, 2024
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the hardest decision *should* be the easiest
January 12, 2024
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the harsh realities of sunk costs vs staying with the “one whose been there for you”
October 26, 2016
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the importance of play, or my personal standard on ethics in kink
January 12, 2024
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the sun, the north wind, and the man in the coat
October 26, 2023
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there is no small enough
November 6, 2019
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there’s more to life than romance
October 5, 2023
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There’s someone that I’ve been spending a lot of time talking with…
January 16, 2022
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these things scare me
November 26, 2019
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they do get some “thing” out of it
May 3, 2023
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things I could have, the
February 20, 2022
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things you might want to avoid saying to a polyamorous person (because they might respond honestly)
June 21, 2020
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this one time in an unidentified prudish country…
January 15, 2019
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thoughts from “More Than Two”: it’s not just the “poly folk”
April 2, 2023
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three months
April 16, 2019
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three shall be the number of thy counting
April 4, 2021
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threesomes, are they for you???: how to have a successful, non fantasy threesome: part one
January 12, 2024
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TINY problem with unsolicited dick pics, the
March 21, 2023
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tired of the lies
March 7, 2023
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to the person who believes life would be better if I went away
August 13, 2023
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